Here's the deal - if you want me to basically grow the plant for you, post pics and I'll approve or disapprove proposed pruning or LST. I can draw on pictures, show you what to do, etc.
Bonsai - You need to look at grows. Get a vision of what you want to grow. Make it happen. Wax-on Wax-off
If you want a scrog, a manifold, just topping and training, whatever - there are experts on here that can help. If you want to be the expert, trial and error is king. Figuring out "what the fuck!?!?" when stuff goes sideways is where learning happens. There's a fine line between learning from others mistakes, and having to make them on your own to understand them.
As you've noticed this is a finicky plant, but it's also a very resilient plant. Most of the time it will grow like a weed if you just let it LOL
There's also the part where you need to get smoke at the end
We can get you there.